Push ups.
As I think back to the two weeks I spent in Trinidad working with an incredible team designing and implementing the Agents of Change camp, push-ups always come to mind. This camp was a daring project to host in Trinidad, but in partnership with SiG, Village Seed Solutions, Demming Communications and other corporate and community backers, we successfully ran a camp for boys aged 15-20.
It began with the question: “What would happen if you gave a group of young men a hopeful lens to see the world through, an opportunity to name what they care about and the tools to create positive social change in the world? What could they accomplish with just a little bit of knowledge and new ways of thinking?”
Agents of Change was open to only young men in this first year, because we felt we needed to focus in a way where we could create the most impact. Some of these boys came from the toughest neighborhoods in the country and were offered corporate support to join us – these were strong young men on one hand, vulnerable on the other. Others had heard about the camp through various promotion and their families had enrolled them. The camp was designed to focus on providing participants with skills, tools and resources around systems thinking, creative problem solving and disruptive thinking. The hope was that participants would be able to use these skills in multiple contexts in ways that matter to them. The boys were asked to experiment with applying these tools within a particular problem domain of their choice. They chose from within education, environment or crime. Using the tools and skills taught in the program, participants developed their own innovative approaches to these issues in their communities.
This was a camp about empowerment, not just the transfer of knowledge. On the first morning, we asked the boys to work with us to co-create the rules we would all abide by for the next 10 days. One of the questions we posed was, how do we ensure all aspects of this space are respected; the people, the school we were in and the schedule we were working according to. They decided that if anyone was late, they would either have to do push ups or sing a song or dance. When we asked how many push ups, they enthusiastically shouted '10 a day!'. Meaning by the end of camp, if anyone was late on the final Friday, they would be doing 100 push ups!! I was grateful to be a facilitator who was there early every morning, because I knew my wimpy arms couldn’t handle that. While it seemed to be in good fun when we started, I learned lessons from these push ups. I also learned, that some teenage boys in Trinidad don’t have a musical repertoire that reaches beyond ‘I’m a little teapot’ or ‘Mary had a little lamb’. By day 3, these young men were encouraging each other to choose the push ups rather than sing or dance- they loved watching the physical engagement this forced everyone into. And then somehow this daily morning ritual started reflecting various lessons we were talking about during our days together. On the morning after we talked mental models, these boys challenged each others assumptions about what was possible. I watched one young guy just hit the concrete floor out of pure exhaustion – his arms couldn’t do anymore. Then Adom, a young charismatic participant, just shouted ‘come on bro, you can do this, you got it, I know you do’. And that one second of belief from someone else, seemed to breathe new energy through those arms and he pumped another 10 pushups to the hooting and hollering of his fellow students. I loved that moment.
Here we were in a school courtyard of sorts, with half a roof, papered chalkboards, a freshly scrubbed floor and sharing in a moment of how honest confidence in one another could take us to beyond the place where we feel like giving up. Those lessons of not giving up on each other, translated into conversations of what resilience would look like as these young men talked about a future for their country that could include their fellows students not getting caught up in gang activity and how relevant community programming could alter that. How they could use the vibrant party scene in Trinidad to be an accelerator for how people view, value and act towards the environment. Or why education needed to be taught in a different way to reach the diverse learning styles and interests of its students.
Then there was the day we talked about asset based approaches, true colors and seeing the good in people , regardless of if they are different than us. We saw barriers come down around how these boys interacted with each other. What had been previously identified as differences, were now viewed as opportunities. Past issues of, what school they came from, what music they listened to, or what their families looked like – no longer had a place or power here. These boys started taking push ups FOR each other. Helping each other out; those who were strong, who loved to do one handed push ups or push ups on their knuckles, would volunteer to take 10 push ups so that their fellow students would make it to their goal. Together they helped each other respect the rules they had set out for each other.
In the final circle, one participant talked about how he recognized they were part of this whole system, and could feel the constant pounding of the problems that surround them, and while they desire innovation in their responses, knowing there were other young men being open to thinking differently and wanting to act differently, meant we had hope. While there were typical moments in these 2 weeks where I had my first world purview stretched, what will remain my strongest takeaway, is the incredible hope in the next generation that is rising up in Trinidad. They are not being done to, they are doing. They are not just dreaming; they are capable. And yet, we can’t let that be an excuse, we all hold responsibility for how we create the conditions for success to be the reality. But for 10 days, being reminded of hope, solidarity and change through push ups – that’s a good start. I’ll take it.
Anita is the Manager of Knowledge Mobilization with WISIR and can be reached at anita.abraham@uwaterloo.ca
Watch these two videos - the first of one participant having to do 60 push ups and getting a little help. And the second showcasing some of the learning from the two weeks.